Talking through BMI centiles with parents
It can be a difficult thing to tell a parent that their child is over- or under-weight (see module on communication with parents about weight) for further discussion around weight-related communication). If parents are unaware there is an issue, the news could come as a shock and might cause initial upset or anger. Yet this is sometimes a necessary process for parents to go through to recognise the need to change. The following guidance is provided to support you in presenting information about the child’s weight in an informative, yet sensitive, manner. We practiced this approach for many years in the GOALS child weight management programme in Liverpool7 with parents often commenting it was the first time someone had explained to them in “black and white” about their child’s weight.
Avoid sugar-coating information
Whilst you might think it helps parents to “play the issue down” or avoid the term “obese”, our research suggests this can sometimes make things worse8. Whilst parents in our study acknowledged it was difficult to hear, they felt being told the facts about their child’s weight was an important step to help them move forward.
Being direct doesn't mean being insensitive
You will see in the videos below that it is possible to share difficult weight-related information in a sensitive manner. The following hints may help:
a) Tone of voice and body language: By adopting a non-judgemental tone and open body language, you will help parents feel more at ease.
b) How the information is presented: Parents need to be given time to digest the facts before any emotional response kicks in. One way this can be achieved is by first explaining BMI and how under/over-weight is identified in a clear, factual manner (before mentioning their individual child). Once this is done and understood, you then explain where their child fits within this (e.g. by showing where they are on the BMI chart).
c) Presenting weight as a changeable component rather than a trait of the child: In video 2 below you will see the practitioner uses the word obese, but she does not specifically say the words “Chloe is obese”. Instead she talks the father through the BMI chart before showing him where Chloe is on the chart. The father is then able to work out for himself what Chloe’s weight status is. If you do feel the need to explain, it may be better to say “Chloe’s BMI is within the obese category” than “Chloe is obese”, since the first example separates Chloe’s weight from who she is as a person, rather than defining Chloe by her weight. This can be encouraging to help her father see weight as a manageable and changeable factor.
d) Allowing time: You will see in the videos the practitioner talks through the information at a gentle pace and allows pauses throughout the consultation for the parent to digest the information. She also offers parents a chance to ask any questions and helps them feel ok to do so. Silence can feel uncomfortable, but it can also be helpful in allowing time to work through things. It is important to try and resist the temptation to fill any silences with “sugar-coated” information to help the parent feel better.
The two videos below provide examples of talking through children’s weight, height and BMI with parents. Parents in the videos are actors and children’s names are fictional.
In video 1, Paula is talking to the mother of a 3-year old boy (Toby), who is worried he is underweight. In this video Paula uses the UK Growth Chart Boys 2-18 years to explain Toby’s height, weight and how this converts to BMI.
In video 2, Paula is talking to the father of a 4-year old girl (Chloe). Paula uses the UK Growth Chart Girls 2-18 years to explain Chloe’s height and weight, but moves straight to the BMI chart for children aged 2-20 years to explain Chloe’s BMI (because Chloe is overweight, both visually and from the fact her weight centile is a lot higher than her height centile).
Tracking BMI over time for children who are over weight
As children are still growing, they will reduce their BMI centile by stabilising their weight, or even by putting on weight at a slower rate than they are gaining height. The recommended approach to achieve this is through lifestyle changes to physical activity and diet, as discussed in the modules on Physical Activity and Sedentary Behaviour and Nutrition. Therefore when following-up with parents, you should be encouraged by any reduction in BMI centile, as it will take time for children who are very overweight to achieve a healthy BMI.
Figure 2 and figure 3 show how it would show on the charts if Chloe (video 2) were to maintain her weight while she continues to grow along the height centiles. Figure 2 shows the height and weight chart, and figure 3 shows the BMI chart. It can be seen that over a period of 18 months Chloe’s weight drops from > 98th centile to between the 75th and 91st centile. This brings her BMI down from 20.9kg/m2 to 17.1kg/m2, and her BMI centile from >99.6th centile (severely obese) to < 91st centile (healthy).
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Identifying unhealthy weight in pre-school children
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1. Which of the following is the correct BMI of a child who is 125 centimetres tall and weighs 35kg?
2. If a 3-year old girl has a BMI of 16, what is her weight status?
3. If monitoring a child from birth for routine growth assessment, which chart does the RCPCH recommend is used?
a) UK Growth Chart for 2-18 years
b) UK WHO Growth Charts for 0-4 years
c) BMI chart for children aged 2-20 years
d) None of the above
4. Which of the following obese children might raise potential medical concerns
a) A child with abnormal facial features and developmental delays
b) A child whose BMI falls just over the 98th centile but has a very athletic physique and is very physically active
c) A young child whose height has stopped increasing
d) a and c
5. When diagnosing underweight in children, which BMI centile suggests the child might have additional issues that require medical or dietetic attention?
a) <2nd centile
b) <0.4th centile
c) <9th centile
d) None of the above
6. If a child who is obese continues to grow in height but their weight remains stable, which of the following is true?
a) Their BMI will increase over time, but their BMI centile will remain stable
b) Their BMI will stay the same over time, and their BMI centile will reduce
c) Both their BMI and their BMI centile will remain stable
d) Both their BMI and their BMI centile will reduce
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